TIME FOR US is a great camp opportunity for youth ages 10 to 18 who have a loved one with neurological challenges of Alzheimer’s, Parkinsons, ALS, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder or similar neurological or cognitive challenges. Our nature-based Keepers of Memories activities help campers & families find paths toward: understanding changes, coping skills, nutrition, and connections between cognitive health and the health of our environment. Past campers expressed, “It was great!’ and “I can once again play with my Dad ”
This year TIME FOR US will be moving to BETHEL HORIZONS camp located in Dodgeville outside of Madison, adjoining Governor Dodge State Park. Bethel Horizons complements our nature-based concept, and adds the structure and support of a fun five day camp experience. For 2017… We are continuing to encourage adults to participate in a side by side camp experience at the same time. The adult version is meant for care partners, relatives, persons who work with seniors and people wanting to communicate better and understand more about cognitive health. See our Activities page for more information. Promote the linked Flyer and Application forms for adults, youth, or Jr Leaders.
Your recruitment, volunteer and financial help will enable more youth to receive the support and understanding that they need this summer. For a tax-deductible gift, see our Donations page or send a check made out to forMemory, Inc. and mail it to Rosann Milius, Treasurer, 1305 Maricopa Drive, Oshkosh, WI 54904. Also, consider gaining sponsors by asking your neighborhood organization, congregation, civic club, political group, or business to contribute and be recognized. Chris Van Ryzin in Appleton at (920)734-9638 or Mary Kay Baum in Southwest Wisconsin at (608)935-5834 would be happy to speak to groups in your area of all ages.
APPROACH me from the front to avoid startling me.
BEND over to my level or sit nearby if I am sitting.
CALMLY call me by my name in a friendly way.
DO introduce yourself "Hi, Aunt Mary, it's Bill & I came to admire your violets."
ELIMINATE commotion and noise so I can relax & better focus on you.
FEAR that I am a burden worries me. Tell me why you're glad to see me.
GENTLE touches please, as I may have physical pain. Hug, if I agree.
HAVE patience & take time to hear my words. Rushing me slows me down.
INVITE me to accompany you in familiar and also new social events.
JUST remind me of something pleasant if I keep repeating myself.
KNOW that I may be slow to find my words, to get to my point, to move.
LISTEN to the kinds of help I want; ask before taking over.
MODEL & suggest going with me on a walk, an art activity, lifelong learning.
NOTE that I take words more literally now so avoid teasing and sarcasm.
OFTEN explore nature, healthy foods, arts, and movement activities with me.
PLEASE help me to continue to serve my community & affirm my efforts.
QUIT quizzing me... Who, What, Why questions feel like pressure & tire me.
REPEAT yourself in matter-of-fact way if you think I missed hearing something.
STAND up for environmental health since the health of the earth affects me.
TEACH me songs, prayers, scenes of wonder, and stories that I'd like.
UNDERSTAND that my moods can change quickly, especially to fear & inertia.
VALIDATE my own feelings, "It looks like you might be upset, tired, relieved..."
WORDS of clear suggestions are helpful - "Now is a good time for us to ..."
X-CHANGE negatives for positives, "Let's step over here" instead of "Don't fall".
YOU are a true friend as you remind me of what I can do, not just what I can't.
ZANY humor is great, let's laugh and enjoy the moment together.
forMemory is a non-profit 501(c)(3) organization with IRS tax exempt certification For more information on how to receive a tax-deductible receipt for your gift contact forMemory's treasurer, Rosann Milius at email@example.com or call (920)231-9237. Disclaimer
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